Rules, Regulations & Religion

Once we start life; it becomes apparent that we must understand what it is we are want to accomplish..... Life is that way, and must be played as such... So look at your plans and or desires.... Most of which may not be accomplished in this life time... But you must start somewhere!! DUH!!

Next the trick is to "read the room" or see exactly what is happening, in life around you.... There are always some things going on, with or without you... To this you must become accustomed and learn to play the proper roles... Everyone has a role to play some are better at it than others.... So get your brain in order and see where you fit in... Most everyone fits in somewhere...

Sometimes we must learn to just be an observer, and watch which way the play is going... This can save us much pain and sorrow... There is always a way to become better at living your life... Life is the only thing on your plate right now... DUH!! So learn to be the best at it as you can...

There is actually two parts to life.... Freedom of choice, and control or domination by others... Your GOD given Free will, allows you to be your own planner, developer, or supporter.... These are the areas which you need to become the best person that you can!

But on the other side and there is always another side... Is the control element, the ones who want to make you fit their mold(s).... This has always been the story since Adam & Eve.... So your main contest after developing your mind and setting your core ideas, is to be aware of the controllers in this life.... Most seem to come around sounding like they are your best friend(s)... While actually they only have plans to take your liberty, or money, or self esteem... This is a curious thing, since on the surface it seems like they are out to help you.... Yet in their heart they want to control you and dominate you, to their satisfaction, or purpose... This is the prime danger in life....

Yes, Virginia; there really is a devil... A spoiler, one who would have you think you are in paridise.... But who has your total destruction in mind and in his heart of heart of hearts... This is not some sort of scare tactic, this is the absolute truth... There really is good and evil...

There are some tests that we all should use to see where someone stands in either being honest and truly helpful or deceitful and controlling... We will go over some of those here:

1) Determine just what is in this relationship or friendship for the other person.... BTW Free Sexual Intercourse is not a good reason to be involved with someone...

2) Look at a person's background, and see where they are coming from.... If they are totally self centered; which many people are, then you may want to steer clear!!

3) See what type friends or relatives they have this will clue you into what type person they are... The number of friends is not that important as is the quality of those people...

4) Take mental notes, when you communicate, to see if they have loose moral, or will try anything... Epically for a thrill... This should be a loud warning sign...

5) Discuss what sort of plans and / or actives they are into... Drinking, Dope, Gambling, Loose Morals, stealing. disregard for anyone or anything would be good clues they are ripe for a fall... We are talking about Jail time, or some type of isolation from society... BTW we are not talking about a vacation or short trip here... DUH!!

These are a few of many trait's that you may want to check in meeting new so called friends.... Another little, tip is to seek some help from them, and watch how they react... Either supportive or resentful... Huh!!

Of course if you are comfortable with most of the above type people, then remember; birds of a feather flock together, and end up in the same pot... DUH!!

People who seek to pull something over on others always seem to end up on the short end of the stick, if you get the drift... Why we can't just get along is beyond me... Don't aggravate others since there is enough trouble in the world all ready.... Duh!!